Marriage – Improving Your Relationship

BuckeyeMan asked:


I’ve heard that people can’t really love until they love themselves.

So what are some ways a person with really low self esteem learn to like and love them self?

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Eddie Cacciatore, Private Eye asked:


I’m not talking people from the 1920s, but those who wed in like the 1960s and up. I’ve looked at a lot of marriages as a cop and PI and been in three marriages myself and would have to say any marriage that lasts 50 years has a 100% chance at least one party cheated. Unless they’re both really deformed.

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barb asked:


I am just wondering once again on the opinion of people for this issue/debate. I have to debate on it in class tomorrow. In my case I am against gay marriage for the debate, but I am for Civil Unions. I don’t think the ppl that are gay should get the title, because they already have C.U.’s. Also, this can affect the tradition of people that don’t want it, ect…
How would you solve this issue, according to my case?
-if you can please use statistics and information you know to
be against the issue/debate.

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stargazer76 asked:


My marriage is on the rocks he has a temper, we have been together for 4 years but I have just found that I have started to look at other guys and think of them in inappropriate ways, wanting relations with them. We have been separated for a while but I have been thinking of giving him another chance and trying to work the relationship out for our daughter. Will these other feelings go away if our relationship improves? Can it survive?

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stephanie asked:


I love traveling all over the world and love working with the general public. I have worked as a travel agent and a representative for overseas travel companies but want to try something different. Any suggestions?

…aiko… asked:


If two people totally love each other but are incompatible, how do they get along? This doesnt have to necessarily be me, so dont answer in “you”s but rather “they”s.

In other terms, their are two people who dont get along because of incompatibly issues, but they love each other not to give up on one another. Its a possible combination. So, how does a couple who is going through this deal with it and save the relationship?

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qcfx2a asked:


For some of you who don’t know, America now has a 50+% divorce rate which anyone with a right mind could tell that its a big problem.

Some sociologists and psychiatrists say that one way to solve the divorce problem is to teach people, especially children, the importance of strong family values and strength of character.

But modern day television shows plots where characters are divorced or remarrying and how involved characters deal with it. Even children’s shows have this, usually to help children deal with divorced or remarrying parents.

But the problem is these plots get misinterpreted by kids. That aside from learning how to deal, they get the impression that divorce IS inevitable. That marriage will ALWAYS be temporary.

So now how would you teach kids how to deal with their divorced/remarried parents AND at the same time teach them the importance of strong family values?

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Ed Correli asked:


My pastor is a fundamentalist Baptist preacher. He’s a big believer in traditional marriage when it comes to other people, but a huge hypocrite when it comes to himself.

CASE IN POINT:
My pastor has an 11-year-old daughter. She has a perfect frame for lifting heavy loads and plowing fields.

A 74-year-old member of our church is widowed and quite wealthy. He offered to purchase my pastor’s daughter as a slave, and also for breeding purposes. But instead of supporting traditional marriage, my pastor called the police on this poor old man.

How can I get my pastor to support traditional marriage as it was practiced in biblical times?

Jaime asked:


Some people stay in unhappy marriages even though they don’t like the other person. Is marriage a goal for these people even if it compromises their own happiness?

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Matthew asked:


My wife moved away from me about 7 months ago and I don’t know here address but I do know she lives in a different state. I want to file for divorce but she says shes going to do it too. I would let her but I want to control the divorce in my state cause I cant travel right now dues to work. What happens if we both file? Thanks in advance.

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